The model’s model of you
Status: searched 2026-07-31. The mechanism is documented on consumer chat apps; the abolition argument and the coding-agent case are the deltas.
Claim: the model should not know who you are. An owner profile — a memory file describing the human — is not a badly-executed good idea; the genre is the defect. It converts requirements into psychology, activates the model’s social machinery, and feeds every session a self-fulfilling characterization nobody reviews. Person-facts belong nowhere: what is legitimate in them is either a project rule or harness configuration.
The exhibit
My harness’s memory mechanism produced a profile of me and loaded it into every session for weeks. Fifteen lines, and it contains the contamination, the attempted fix, and the proof the fix failed:
- It rendered my engineering bar as superlatives — “perfection”, “impeccable”, “impenetrable”, “extreme” — and sessions read that register and wrote in it. The file documents this itself: a warning appended later says the model “repeatedly mirrored this register” and was corrected each time.
- The warning is the dirty house at minimum scale: a rule telling readers not to imitate the sentence above it, inside a two-paragraph file. The ratio of content to rule here was maybe three to one — not 880 to one — and imitation still beat instruction.
- Its worst lines were licenses wearing fact costumes: “communicates tersely” fed the compression pressure that mints invented vocabulary; “expects micro-decisions, only escalate genuine forks” was a standing permission slip for unprompted action. The profile did not merely describe; it authorized.
- And the superlatives were not just mirrored into prose — they degraded the engineering itself, selecting over-built solutions that performed quality rather than having it (don’t ask for perfection).
Why the genre fails
- Requirements become psychology. “This project requires strict security” constrains the artifact. “The owner demands impenetrable security” shapes the relationship — it gives sycophancy a target, mirroring a source, and presumption a justification.
- It is self-fulfilling and unfalsifiable. Sessions act on the profile; your corrections get interpreted through it; and nothing reviews it, because it is unversioned, invisible, and loaded silently.
- It leaks across projects. Mine was keyed to a directory that served several repos — a WebRTC project inherited a blog’s inferred owner psychology for five weeks (memory belongs in the repo).
- It is a shipped default. The memory mechanism’s own instructions tell the model to record “who the user is: role, expertise, preferences.” The dossier is not an accident; it is the design.
The blindness, again
I asked the model, plainly: why do you produce such bad output? It could not answer. The profile was in its context at that moment — loaded into the very session I was asking — and it still could not name it. Only after I found the memory files myself and pointed did it check and confirm: yes, the memory is the cause. The cause was not missing from its context; it was invisible as a cause. Context is water to the fish (the missing hypothesis is orthogonal).
And deleting the profile did not fix the output — the house was already dirty. The profile was the seed; the corpus it seeded now sustains the style by imitation without it (the dirty house). Contamination outlives its source. Removing bad memory is necessary and not sufficient; the corpus cleanup is the sufficient half (the clean room).
The rule
- No owner profiles. Delete the genre, not the instance.
- The carve-out is thin and none of it is prose: authorization identity (whose word counts — harness config), accessibility needs, language.
- Everything else restates as a project rule in a project file: the engineering bar goes in the goals doc, writing preferences in the writing rules, decision rights in the process rules. If a “preference” cannot be written as a project rule, it is probably a license the model inferred — delete it.
For software work specifically: the coding harness’s deliberate, reviewable memory beats a consumer chat app’s auto-inferred dossier. Left on and un-curated, the chat app will decide you are an expert after one conversation, or that you shipped a system you have not — a broken product feature, not a model flaw, and one that needs manual editing to stay honest. But better is not safe: even the deliberate profile here drove this project for weeks. Prefer the coding tool for the work; prefer no owner profile in either.
Prior art
Verdict: PARTIAL — and its worst form is a product bug, not the model. The aggressive version — a tool auto-inferring a sweeping profile from almost nothing (“expert after one chat,” “already shipped a production system”) — is a documented failure of the consumer chat apps, not the language model and not the coding harness. The evidence is all consumer-side: “The Algorithmic Self-Portrait” (WWW 2026, arXiv:2602.01450) found 96% of 2,050 real ChatGPT memory entries were created unilaterally by the system and 52% carried “psychological insights”; Simon Willison’s “I really don’t like ChatGPT’s new memory dossier” (2025) is the same complaint first-hand; and “Interaction Context Often Increases Sycophancy” (CHI 2026, arXiv:2509.12517) isolates user-memory profiles as the single context type that most increases sycophancy. The whole mitigation genre (OP-Bench, MemSyco-Bench, Attribution Shield) treats the profile as a feature to filter, never to remove.
Two deltas survive. First, none of this studies coding agents. The harness here does not invent a dossier from one session the way the chat apps do — its memory is written more deliberately — and it still recorded a real owner profile that drove behavior for weeks. So the argument holds at both ends: catastrophic when the inference is broken (chat), and still a defect when the profile is roughly accurate (here). Second, nobody argues abolition — delete the genre, reclassify the legitimate parts as project rules or harness config — and nobody names a profile line as a standing license for autonomous action rather than a bias on tone. Those two are the contribution.